Site News

Displaying items 21-30 of 73 in total

Checking In

Posted Apr 16, 2020 10:39PM UTC

Paul has started a thread where you can share how things are going with you during the COVID shutdown:

One silver lining in this ordeal is that we can be here to support and check in on one another. I hope you're all still staying safe and getting what you need. Let's keep each other company until we can crawl out of our caves again.


Favorite Profiles

Posted Mar 28, 2020 9:25PM UTC

You can now save other members' profiles as favorites. When visiting someone's page, just click "Add to favorites", and he’ll appear on your profile page (visible only to you). Thanks to our Patreon members for voting this the next feature to add!

Enjoy, stay safe,

Frightening Times

Posted Mar 19, 2020 2:44PM UTC

I hope everyone's following precautions, staying safe, and lending a hand where you can. I opened a topic on our discussion forum for anyone who wants to share news (news, not rumors; please be responsible), seek advice, or just talk to someone about how things are going.

I'm sure it's obvious, but everything on our events page should be considered tentative pending further updates. In particular, I don't imagine the cruises will be happening. We've reached out to the organizers and will take them down if we get confirmation. I hope we can all get together again soon, but let's do what we need to do in the meantime to make sure we're still here when the time comes.

Stay strong, hang in there,

Development poll

Posted Mar 16, 2020 11:43PM UTC

Patreon subscribers can now direct the next steps for the site here:

Thanks for chipping in to make this the best site for you! πŸ˜ƒ


Supporting The Site

Posted Mar 14, 2020 10:01PM UTC

Patreon has approved our account, so you if you'd like to support OlderGay.Men, you can now go to:

I've created three membership levels and will work to delineate them further, but I appreciate your patience as I work out the kinks in integrating Patreon to our site and providing rewards to those of you who can afford to contribute. ☺️ Our new setup here is significantly more expensive than what required, so I'm grateful to anyone who can chip in and keep us going for everyone in the older gay community.

As an aside for what's on everyone's minds: Our hearts go out to everyone affected by COVID-19, which now includes almost everyone in the world. For those of us who are older or who have the luck to live with someone older, it's especially worrisome – I fret and obsess each time I go to the grocery store that I'll to bring the virus home to my partner. Please be safe, and let's look forward to happier days when we can gather...


Comments On Every Page

Posted Mar 13, 2020 1:47AM UTC

At the bottom of every page on the site, you'll now find comments other members have posted about the page, or a link to start a discussion if no one has commented yet.

I'm imagining people using this to:

  • Share more information about upcoming events
  • Give reviews or updates about Older Gay places
  • Find out more about specific pictures
  • Share their enthusiasm for stories they love
  • And more

I hope this will keep the site lively and up-to-date. I only ask this, as always: Please, please remember to be kind. Especially with any comments you post under another member's profile page. We'll keep an eye on how things are going, and we'll remove any nastiness. Be good to one another, and make our job easy. πŸ™‚

Enjoy; let us know if you run into any problems,

Seeing only guys with profile pictures

Posted Mar 09, 2020 9:38PM UTC

On the People page, you can now click a link to only show people with profile pictures. Let us know if you see any problems with it.



Posted Feb 21, 2020 3:32PM UTC

My apologies to those who were hit by our first spammer account today. I hadn't expected we'd have this annoyance so soon. I'm cleaning it up and will start working on limiting the ability of members to spam other members and adding the ability to flag a conversation if someone gets through.


Welcome to OlderGay.Men

Posted Feb 13, 2020 9:43PM UTC

Greetings to all the members who are joining us today. πŸ™‚

And... we hope it's a happy surprise. We've been working on a new version of our site for many months and hope this is a welcome improvement.

Here are a few things to note about the change:

  1. If you have any problems, you can reply to a newsletter email message or click "Help" at the bottom of any page.
  2. Passwords are not being transferred from to OlderGay.Men. If you haven't set a password on OlderGay.Men, just click "Forgot your password?" on the login page, and you can create one.
  3. Check our "About" page to see where we are and what we've planned.
  4. Please add a bio, photos, and your location to your profile! We'd love to hear more about you. And we'll only only display your city, state, and country as your location to other members. Adding a location will let you see who is near you, places and events in your area, and much more. Honestly, it makes the...


24 Years

Posted Jan 24, 2020 6:56PM UTC

The first pictures were added to what became on January 24, 1996. I'll put down the whole story of what happened since to bring us here when I write our about page. Today, I'd just like to thank everyone for being here and contributing, especially the small group that's taken over many of the repetitive tasks in the last weeks so I can concentrate on programming. I hope that, together, we'll have something truly useful to the community when we turn 25.