Membership

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Built by and for older gay men. Real conversations, real meetups, and a community we run ourselves.

No ads. Ever.

We don't sell your attention. Your membership is what keeps the lights on.

Real members

Aggressive moderation against fakes and scams. People come here to actually meet each other.

Beyond the screen

Local meetups, events, a forum, and a newsletter โ€” things the dating apps don't do.

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Basic membership with essential features

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Fan

$5

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or $54/year (save 10%)

Enhanced membership supporting the community

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Most popular paid tier
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Patron

$10

per month

or $108/year (save 10%)

Premium membership with expanded features

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Hero

$15

per month

or $162/year (save 10%)

Top-tier membership with unlimited features

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What's included

Feature๐Ÿ†“User ๐ŸŒŸFan โญPatron ๐Ÿ†Hero
Photo uploads31020Unlimited
Daily messages2UnlimitedUnlimitedUnlimited
Private video chat
See who follows you
Private notes on profiles
Vote on new features
Early access to collections
VIP recognition

Frequently asked

Why Patreon?

We use Patreon so you can change or cancel any time without fighting a hidden subscription page. One click to upgrade, one click to leave.

Can I switch tiers?

Yes. Edit your pledge on Patreon. Your benefits update on the site within a few minutes after we sync.

What happens if I cancel?

You keep your membership benefits through the end of your billing period, then return to the free User tier. Your profile, photos, and conversations stay yours.

Annual or monthly?

Annual saves you 10% and helps us plan ahead. Either choice unlocks the same benefits.

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